Steps toward the simple life

I've been waiting for this time, this next couple of weeks, I'm on holidays from work. No plans to go anywhere, but lots of plans to just settle, to establish some familiarity, to potter around our home and do more to make it ours.

I've been craving simplicity for a while now, to shed the excess and to just focus on providing what we need, not what we want. Not an easy task with 3 kids in this day and age, let alone my own desire for 'stuff'. Having said that, that desire for stuff is is very diminished now, compared to what it was once upon a time, but I still find myself wanting 'things' at times, fortunately I've trained my thinking well enough to remind myself that stuff doesn't make me happy, or my life any better!!

Since we moved in here 3 months ago, I've been wanting to establish a veggie garden, and on the weekend we finally got started on it! I've been waiting for the warmer months so that I can track the sunlight around the backyard, to work out the best places to plant, and I'd all but given up on seeing sunshine again when God provided us with a glorious couple of days. It has been a long, cold (even though the history shows it's been a warmer than usual winter), grey winter, and I am craving the sun.

Some friends came and gave us a hand, given that I can't dig without repercussions, but weed I can, and it was *such* a satisfying task. We are blessed with beautiful soil in this part of the world, and I am praying that it will be the basis of a productive, yummy garden. I'll let the pictures tell the story (apologies for their poor quality, my camera needs a service):

Before:

Very overgrown, weed-covered garden beds

Yes, we have a pond in the middle of the backyard. And a tree. Hmmm.....

And after:

Lovely beds ready for planting



There are two fruit trees along the fence, one is definitely a stone fruit, the other I have no idea!! The bushy tree in the pic below (in front of the shed) is a lemon tree - a dwarf one, I'm supposing, given it's size










Start of a compost pile, and a bin to speed things up a bit (plus DS' efforts at pulling up the dead bamboo plant!)



The family that plays together....



Kids + dirt = happiness

Getting into the garden spurred me into action. Over the last few days and today I have:

- bough seedlings and seeds for the garden (and of course now the weather isn't warm enough for planting!! Hopefully the seedlings will survive the next few days until I can get them in the ground.





'weather isn't warm enough' translates to the above - from glorious blue skies and sunshine as per previous pics, to this in the space of a few hours. Normal, yes. Productive, not so much.

- made a poolish (bread starter) and baked it up the next day





(spread with homemade fig jam to boot!)

- started a ginger beer plant
- started a sourdough starter



- made up 2 lots of yoghurt
- made pizza dough for tonight's homemade pizzas








- made dough to prove overnight for tomorrow's bread
- sorted the leftovers in the fridge to make up into to-go-in-the-freezer meals tomorrow
- put the remnants of bbq chickens and veggies into the crockpot to make stock
- put some yoghurt in a colander, weighted by a plate (in the fridge) to try and make soft cheese
- been devouring my gardening magazines and books for advice - I'm particularly loving Jackie French's 'The Earth Gardener's Companion'. I love her very practical advice, her 'you can do it' encouragement, and am being really inspired by her writings.
- have needles and cotton yarn ready to start my first dishcloth (I'm a bit late to the party - perhaps I should finish the 57 million other projects currently on needles in various states of progress first ?!?!?)
- cleaned up and organised my crafting space so that I don't have any excuses not to be creating....and realised what a gorgeous outlook I have from my corner

I have a big 'to-do' list for my house, and I have to keep reminding myself that I'm here for a long time, and because I've bought a house that's in great condition, with no 'big' jobs that need to be done soon, I can take my time and be thorough. I love that I can think about banging hooks in the walls for pictures. That I can fix a bookshelf to the wall wherever I want. That if the lino gets scratched or the door ends up with a hole in it (don't ask...), it's ok, because it's my responsibility. Makes the extra expense of being a homeowner totally worth it :-)

I'm realising in this process that I haven't simplified and pared back my life as much as I thought I had. I certainly have in comparison to years past, but I still have so much *stuff* cluttering up my life, I really need to prsort, prioritise and purge again. I've seen a few bloggers post about no-spend periods of time - from a week to a year - with variations on the theme, and it's something I'm tempted to do. I know the only thig stopping me is my desire to accumulate, my unconscious need to put my security in that which I can see, touch and hear. I was out in the garden on Sunday afternoon, happily munching away on lunch and reading the paper, and lamenting the advertising and push in our world to get people to think the *need* more, bigger, better stuff to make their life better, when I hear a bird singing and a scripture verse popped into my head -

"25"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes?

26"Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? 28And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will He not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?

31"So do not worry, saying, `What shall we eat?' or `What shall we drink?' or `What shall we wear?' 32For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."
(Matt 6:25-34)

I was reminded, yet again, that God already has it all sorted, that if I stop and take the time to appreciate and enjoy what He has already blessed me with, rather than worrying about what I don't have and what I think will make my life better/easier/more enjoyable, I *will* appreciate and enjoy the blessings showered in my life already, and not be so distracted by what the world wants me to be. I'm certainly not saying that's an 'easy' mindset, but one I need to be more aware of.

Speaking of being out in the garden (geeI love saying that :-) ), I took the camera with me to capture the beauty under my nose:

Buds and blossoms on the as-yet-unidentified fruit tree (please feel free to help me out if you have any idea!)

Bluebell? My garden has surprised me over the last couple of months, with bits and pieces popping up here and there. Including the 1 gerbera flower and 3 tulips in the front garden.....

I kid you not, taking these pics was *seriously* akin to sky-diving for me - I'm allergic to bees, as in I have an anaphylactic reaction to bee stings. But I love them, they are just *so* fascinating.

That will be the end of the run of productivity for a few days, I'm having some issues with my feet, and have been told to rest them. Perfect excuse to cosy up with my knitting and reading for a couple of days methinks, especially in this weather!!!